When I think of peacemakers in Bible context, the first passage that comes to my mind is Matthew 5:9 where it says: „Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the sons of God“. In other words, this verse means that those who do take upon themselves the difficult task of “peacemaker” are showing themselves worthy of the title of `God’s children´. (Don’t forget, this means we are brothers and sisters to the Prince of Peace, Jesus!) Only in this one short statement, we already see the importance of this issue to God.
Being a peacemaker IS hard----(are you kidding?? Who ever said it was easy!?) at times it really does seem like “mission impossible.” Way too overwhelming. Way too much to be asked of someone.
And when I think of a peacemaker, someone comes to mind who separates the arguments manually, thus dissolving the tension. However, the truth is, the peacemaker isn’t only the one who pulls the brawlers apart, in fact, that isn’t truly a part of being one. What God is talking about in His Word, is choosing peace by refusing to argue back, or even just not verbalizing that one comment you know will cause a stir among your siblings or friends. Or for that matter, your enemies.
The real peacemaking is starting at the root---not waiting until the argument is in full swing. It lies in the first thoughts, words, and actions that trigger or intensify the situation.
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” Proverbs 15:1.
I know, I know. . .you think you know this already. :P But if you still think that “peacemaker” is too hard, you really don’t. I do get that it is a ton easier, and at the moment a lot more gratifying to lash out and give that person a taste of their own medicine. But that short-lived joy will turn to frustration and maybe even a maze of shattered relationships if it is take too far without restitution.
So the main thought here is: Sons and daughters of God ARE peacemakers. Take the challenge, and drive it to the extreme.
Extreme peacemaking. :)
James 3:18
“Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.”
I loved this post. Especially since I'm REALLY argument prone and don't often assume the role of peacemaker. Thanks for sharing, it really opened my eyes to the importance of being a peacemaker :).
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